In the comments at NRO column by Michael Walsh Let’s You and Him Fight I found a good suggestion for framing the political divide that's really the one that is on my mind (don't know about the rest of the country).
A long time ago I suggested we start calling NBCABCCBSNYTETC state-run media. Rush starting using it shortly afterwards. So I have a suggestion for Mr. Walsh and other like-minded, true, conservatives: stop calling them Democrats and Republicans, and just refer to each of them as the Official Government Party...the OGP. i.e. "Government Party Senator John McCain said...." Put a (G) next to their name.